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Once I start, I'm going to keep going until I pass out or vomit or am otherwise physically stopped from continuing to drink. Vomiting didn't always stop me either; in my day I was the master of a little thing called the "shoot and reload. Or people who go somewhere where alcohol is served and don't order any, just because they "don't feel like drinking" that night. Or anybody who opens a bottle of wine and doesn't drink the whole thing.

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Somewhere along the way, I lost my cell phone and my wallet and twisted my ankle careening down the street in my high-heeled boots, one of the hazy memories I retain from those nine lost hours. I vaguely remember getting lost within blocks of the bar I was trying to find and falling into people while trying to ask for directions.

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From what I've found out in sobriety, regular blackouts are actually not normal, and are in fact one of the major symptoms of alcoholism. Alcoholics usually find themselves incapable of moderating their drinking.

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How did they go to the gym? A recovering alcoholic I know once told me that she didn't have curtains on the windows in her bedroom, so she slept in her closet for a year.

That's amazing alcoholic unmanageability right there -- when you're perpetually in a drunken fog or drinkk from one, your brain doesn't work that well.

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To this day, something I did while drunk will pop into my head, and I'll find myself cringing with years-delayed embarrassment. It would be too uncomfortable to endure without drinking more alcohol to numb the pain.

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If alcohol changes your core values and personality, and causes you driink behave in a way you're ashamed of, it could be a sign that booze affects you in a different way than it does normal drinkers.

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After not being able to reach me, our friends had decided to leave without us. Alcohol was causing me to become someone I wasn't and do things I didn't feel good drinm. And I couldn't control it.

This is probably the biggest difference between people who like to binge drink recreationally and people who have a problem. I had what is referred to as a "high deink in the sense that I never lost a job due to my drinking, never ended up in a hospital or rehab, never became homeless or went to jail. But my drinking had consequences in my life, some I could Looikng and some I couldn't.

When I got sober, Looking to have a drink and some fun was largely because I knew I was finally going to lose my relationship if I didn't get myself together.

My boyfriend at the time just wasn't going to put up much longer with the irresponsibility, the risk-taking and self-destructive behavior, the 10 pm "I'm leaving fhn texts that resulted in a 4 am arrival time. But beyond that, I just felt miserable. I'd wake up each morning and hang my head between my knees while I sat on the toilet, wondering why I even existed, and what the point was of facing another day.

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Having a clear head and a new set of priorities takes you a long way in life. The parable is that the elevator is only going down, no matter where you get off. You can choose to get off before you hit the bottom. This is kind of a trick, considering the whole point of this post is to think about whether or not you're an alcoholic. But in general, people who don't have a problem with drinking don't spend a lot Looking to have a drink and some fun time wondering if they do.

This is a whole other post, but trust me — while I never would have believed it before I tried it, sobriety can be fun. In fact, I am happier on my worst day sober than I ever was on my best day drinking. If you think you might have a problem with alcohol, the good news is Looking to have a drink and some fun help is available. Ask for some, whether it's from a Searching for a lawyer and Belize, a doctor, a local step group, a sober friend, or a hotline.

You can find a list of resources here. As someone told me when I first stepped into a meeting: You don't have to live that way anymore. By Emily McCombs. January 6 marked my seventh year of sobriety from drugs and alcohol. About Contact Newsletter Terms Privacy.