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Why would they take on such huge responsibility if they could find someone else without that responsibility? And those guys would also seek women much more likely to bear them their own biological children. I stand with Evan on this one. Remember so that men come and go.
But you will always have your kids in your life. Single Moms and Dads need to look at the big picture here.